Taking a Second Look

Dec 30

Emily P. Freeman says that self-reflection can help us to make better decisions.  While I agree, I also have a hard time with this.  When looking back, top of mind tends to spotlight the things I’d rather not relive.

The hard stuff, the embarrassing moments and the failures. 

On the other hand, when I reflect on what worked and what went well, I want them to be big things.  I want those moments, actions or choices to be those that were notable, and on a grand scale. 

 I prefer them to be Life changing. Note-worthy (preferable by someone other than me) or Provide profound insight.

 When I taught fifth grade, I attended a writing conference.  One of the presenters, who was also an author, shared her love of poetry. She talked of the need to teach poetry as a form of self-expression and tips for teaching poetry writing to elementary students.

One of the things she said that has stuck with me all these years is that poetry hides in the cracks.  We look for it the big life events, but it is found in the little things.

I’d like to think it’s because this is where most of life hides. Life hides in the cracks of the ordinary day to day events, schedules and conversations.

Taking a different posture and looking back through a less critical lens has helped when I take the time to look back at the past year. 

As you look back over 2022 and reflect on what worked and what didn’t work, look in the cracks of your life.  There is a lot hiding in there that deserves a second look.

 Until next time,

Jennifer